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S2-Case#10-The Origin of An Exorcist

In this episode, Cameron Bertuzzi joins me for another debate - this time about praying to the saints. We discuss: - Catholic versus Protestant understandings of the word "prayer." - The relationship between the saints in heaven and Christians still on earth. - What Scripture says about this topic. <a href="https://pints.mattfradd.com/pwa-confessions-signup/">Sign up for my free course on St. Augustine's "Confessions"!</a> SPONSORS Hallow: <a href="http://hallow.app/mattfradd">http://hallow.app/mattfradd</a> STRIVE: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> Ethos Logos: <a href="https://www.elinvestments.net/pints">https://www.elinvestments.net/pints</a> GIVING Patreon or Directly: <a href="https://pintswithaquinas.com/support/">https://pintswithaquinas.com/support/ </a> This show (and all the plans we have in store) wouldn't be possible without you. I can't thank those of you who support me enough. Seriously! Thanks for essentially being a co-producer co-producer of the show. LINKS Merch: <a href="https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd">https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd</a> FREE 21 Day Detox From Porn Course: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> SOCIAL Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd">https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/mattfradd">https://twitter.com/mattfradd</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd">https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd</a> Gab: <a href="https://gab.com/mattfradd">https://gab.com/mattfradd</a> Rumble: <a href="https://rumble.com/c/pintswithaquinas">https://rumble.com/c/pintswithaquinas</a> MY BOOKS Get my NEW book "<a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1645851311?pf_rd_r=G1VMH792WKT544VHG4CJ&amp;pf_rd_p=5ae2c7f8-e0c6-4f35-9071-dc3240e894a8&amp;pd_rd_r=68b2ceaa-6dec-467b-8cd1-c7f8d1129a35&amp;pd_rd_w=4u4Se&amp;pd_rd_wg=w1Iui&amp;ref_=pd_gw_unk">How To Be Happy: Saint Thomas' Secret To A Good Life</a>," out now! Does God Exist: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9"> https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9</a> Marian Consecration With Aquinas: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4">https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4</a> The Porn Myth: <a href="https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx">https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx</a> CONTACT Book me to speak: <a href="https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform">https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

DEBATE: Is it WRONG to pray to the Saints in Heaven?

On today’s podcast we’ll learn that:
 - An abundance of money can breed deceitful feelings of self-sufficiency
 - We are bound for trouble if we obsess about money and the things it can buy
 - True hope and security can only be found through God.

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Love Of Money

The Catholic church has always taught that work was genuinely a human activity.  Meaning that it was something that we did that made our lives better.  But with the increase of technology, social media, and the changing demographics of the work force, work itself seems to be a different kind of experience.  Nevertheless, the truth about work hasn’t changed.  And God’s vision for work laid out in the Bible remains the same.  This is a Christian advantage.  By letting the truth of our faith inform our leadership Christians protect and enhance the working environment for all involved.

DGT Episode 274 - True Human Work - The Christian Leader's Advantage Part 6

Tune into In Layman's Terms with co-hosts John Soukup and Bob Sullivan, a show dedicated to empowering Catholic men to live with mission, purpose, and faith. Drawing inspiration from Bob's popular column in the Southern Nebraska Register, each episode dives deep into topics that shape a man's spiritual journey&mdash;virtue, brotherhood, sacrifice, prayer, and the ongoing spiritual battle. With thought-provoking discussions and expert guests, this program is a source of strength and inspiration for men striving to lead meaningful, faith-filled lives&mdash;and for the people who support and love them.

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Episode 191: Lent: Just Let Go

Lent starts tomorrow! So it’s about time we take a look at the things we are attached to, the things that are keeping us from Him, and choose to detach. It is time to be led into the desert. 


In this episode with John and Victor, you will hear about:

- Detachment from our idols
- Avoiding Hell vs. aiming for Heaven
- What did Jesus do when the devil showed up?
- The pain of healing!


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Lent - Just Let Go

Today I chat with Fr Ryan Mann about 15 (or so) stories about St Thomas Aquinas that we really hope are true. It's a fun episode. :) --- HUGE THANKS to the following Patrons: Tim Davolt, Chris Reintjes, Tom Dickson, Jack Buss, Sean McNicholl, James Boehmler, Laura Suttenfield, John Hipp, Kathleen Cory, Sarah Jacobs, Fernando Enrile, Travis Headly, Matthew Lafitte, Russell T Potee III, Jed Florstat, Phillip Hadden, and Katie Kuchar, and Matthew Anderson (twitter.com/Matt317A). --- <a href="http://www.BenSound.">www.BenSound.</a>com SPONSORS EL Investments: <a href="https://www.elinvestments.net/pints">https://www.elinvestments.net/pints</a> Exodus 90: <a href="https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/">https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/</a> Hallow: <a href="http://hallow.app/mattfradd">http://hallow.app/mattfradd</a> STRIVE: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> GIVING Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd">https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd</a> This show (and all the plans we have in store) wouldn't be possible without you. I can't thank those of you who support me enough. Seriously! Thanks for essentially being a co-producer coproducer of the show. LINKS Website: <a href="https://pintswithaquinas.com/">https://pintswithaquinas.com/</a> Merch: <a href="https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd">https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd</a> FREE 21 Day Detox From Porn Course: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> SOCIAL Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd">https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/mattfradd">https://twitter.com/mattfradd</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd">https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd</a> MY BOOKS Does God Exist: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9">https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9</a> Marian Consecration With Aquinas: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4">https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4</a> The Porn Myth: <a href="https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx">https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx</a> CONTACT Book me to speak: <a href="https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform">https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

61: 15 (or so) stories about St Thomas we hope are true, with Fr Ryan Mann

Hey everyone, welcome to a very special milestone—our 300th episode of Just a Guy in the Pew! 🎉

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In this episode, Victor and I take a moment to reflect on five incredible years of sharing our hearts, our struggles, and our faith with you all. From the very first episode to now, this journey has been full of raw conversations about vulnerability, faith, and the real challenges we face as men. We’ve laughed, we’ve learned, and we’ve seen how God has worked through this ministry to touch the lives of so many.

If you're new here, this podcast isn’t about perfect people or perfect answers. It’s about real guys, talking about real life, in front of the one person who can truly make a difference—Jesus Christ. Our hope is that by sharing our stories, we can help you find hope in yours.

Thank you to everyone who has been a part of this journey so far. If this message resonates with you, I encourage you to hit that subscribe button and join us as we continue to grow this ministry. Together, we can reach even more men who need to know they’re not alone in their walk of faith.

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⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 - Welcome and Intro: John and Victor celebrate the milestone of 300 episodes
2:35 - Reflecting on the Podcast's Journey: How the show began in 2017 and has grown over five years
6:55 - The Importance of Vulnerability: Discussing how opening up about struggles has been a key part of the podcast’s success
11:45 - Impact on Men's Lives: How the podcast has resonated with men, fostering spiritual growth and connection
16:20 - Faith and Everyday Life: Conversations about navigating faith in the midst of real-world challenges
22:30 - Favorite Moments and Memories: John and Victor share personal stories from past episodes
29:15 - Behind-the-Scenes Insights: How they prepare for episodes and the personal impact of the podcast on their own lives
35:10 - Thanking the Community: Expressing gratitude to listeners and supporters who have been part of the journey
40:25 - Looking Forward: What’s next for the podcast and the ministry
43:00 - Call to Action: Encouraging listeners to subscribe, support, and share the message

Ep 300! Looking Back . . .

John Edwards fell to his knees in a jail cell, and promised to turn his life around, if Christ would make a deal with him. 

In a world plagued by isolation and struggle, men are seeking authenticity and purpose. Men are grappling with issues such as addiction, lack of meaningful relationships, marital challenges, and a disconnect from Christ. The absence of genuine community and mentorship has left many men feeling like isolated warriors. We need is for a safe space where men can drop their façades, connect on a deeper level, and embark on a journey of spiritual growth. 

John Edwards reflects on his personal struggles with addiction and marital issues, his encounter with Jesus in a jail cell, and his commitment to sharing vulnerabilities and building authentic relationships among men. The narrative emphasizes the importance of men leading in faith and fostering a real connection with Christ, confronting issues like addiction, isolation, and lack of authentic friendship.

The mission is clear create enduring and impactful men's groups, build true community, and restore broken lives.

John Edwards is the founder and Executive Director of Pew Ministries, a Catholic apostolate with the mission of bringing the person of Jesus Christ to the person in the pew. John is also a Catholic speaker and evangelist that has spoken in Canada and across the United States. He is also the co-founder of Virtual Catholic Conference LLC. John currently travels the country helping men start life-changing men's groups providing them with leadership training. 

Why are we here? | John Edwards

Many gifted people struggle with the temptation to draw all the attention to themselves.  The allure of leadership is that it puts us in positions of power and therefore esteem in the eyes of others.  A leader who is Christian needs to resist this of course and dedicate themselves to really enhancing the lives of others around them as a servant.  In this fourth of our thirteen part series on Mary, we look at how she lived as a servant leader as she visited her cousin, Elizabeth, in the hill country of Judea.

DGT Episode 232 - Mary A Servant Leader - Mary Queen Of Leaders Part 4

Today, John and Sam are excited to announce a new host to our show, Devin Schadt. He will be joining us weekly to answer the tough questions that men face and add to the depth of knowledge and discussion. This week we talk about warning signs that your wife is not feeling loved. We open up about what we have each learned about truly loving our wives and the many ways that we have failed. We then go into the importance of this topic and how by understanding the nature of women, we can be the husbands they need and the husband God is calling us to be. 
Finally, each week we are going to answer one of your questions during the podcast. This week we have a question from a father about how to be present to his kids after a long and exhausting day at work. If you have any questions, please, record yourself on your phone and send us the audio clip to <a href="mailto:podcast@catholicgentleman.com">⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠</a>. Or just send us your question and we will read it on air. 
Warning Signs - https://catholicgentleman.com/2023/01/your-wife-doesnt-feel-loved-8-warning-signs
 
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Warning Signs Your Wife is Not Feeling Loved

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Catholicism & Orthodoxy (Erick Ybarra) | Ep. 324

CarThoughts

Life is full of suffering. We all go through significant challenges, but there's no doubt that some of us have a bigger cross to carry than others. &nbsp;
Cody Byrns was doing all the right things. He was serving in his church and living his entire life for God. Things in his life were going just as he had expected, until everything suddenly changed. &nbsp;&nbsp;Sitting at a traffic light one day, his car was destroyed by a box truck going 60mph. What followed was an incredibly painful recovery from a near death experience. &nbsp;&nbsp;
How did Cody turn his biggest tragedy into a message of hope?&nbsp;
Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people?&nbsp;
How might God be using the suffering in your life for a greater good?&nbsp;
Find out all this and more in today's episode with <a href="https://codybyrns.com">Cody Byrns</a>, the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Scar-Release-Breaking-Yesterdays-Troubles-ebook/dp/B079H8RPZH/">Scar Release: Breaking Free of Yesterday's Troubles</a>
Follow Cody on Instagram @thecodybyrns

Ep 121 | How Can A Loving God Allow So Much Suffering? w/ Cody Byrns

What is love? The word &ldquo;love&rdquo; takes on a multitude of meanings in our culture, and,as a result, is a very misunderstood word. Love is most often associated withfeelings. But what is the kind of love we were created for as persons made in God&rsquo;simage andlikeness? What is &ldquo;God&rsquo;s brand&rdquo; of love? Dr. David Hajduk explores thedefinition of love as &ldquo;willing the good of another&rdquo; and &ldquo;giving the sincere gift ofself.&rdquo; We discover that love is a choice to sacrifice ourselves for what is truly good.This is the love that makes life make sense.
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Gift Exchange - Session 3

<h1>BBQ Judging, Scythe Harvesting, and Christian Marriage</h1><ul><li>Barbecue Competition Judging: Adam shares his first experience as a barbecue competition judge at a local Catholic church and school fundraiser in Tulsa, where he was joined by his son Jude (assistant judge) and two priests.</li><li>Judged four categories: chicken, pulled pork, ribs, and brisket (Adam insists brisket is the primary measure; David (wrongly) argues for ribs).</li><li>12 pit masters competed; judged on appearance, taste, tenderness, texture, uniqueness, and overall (max score 25).</li><li>Advice from Joe Martin’s son: Take one bite per entry to avoid overeating (48 bites total across 40 minutes).</li><li>Adam judged strictly (e.g., scores as low as 14, zero for appearance), while priests gave higher scores (23–24), highlighting differing standards.</li><li>Event fostered camaraderie among pit masters (12 hours together) and service to attendees, teaching kids sacrifice, friendship, and craft articulation.</li><li>Shout-out to Brian Schooley for organizing; Adam and David plan to enter as The Catholic Man Show next year, with Jim in a dunk tank.</li></ul> <h2>Main Discussion</h2><h3>Wheat Harvest with a Scythe</h3><ul><li>David’s Experience: David harvested two 45x45-foot wheat plots using a scythe, finding it soothing, peaceful, and in tune with nature despite being exhausting.</li><li>Quotes Wendell Berry: “The means we use to do our work almost certainly affects the way we look at the world” (via an X account, @minahan8).</li><li>Compared to last year’s sickle (felt “commie”), the scythe was efficient for small-scale farming; not practical for large-scale but satisfying.</li><li>Kids raked straw (post-harvest, nutritionless due to seeding) for pig bedding or garden mulch; straw vs. hay explained (hay retains nutrition).</li><li>Adam plans to borrow David’s scythe for his own wheat harvest, nervous about back strain.</li><li>Wendell Berry Reflection: Hosts revisit Berry’s essays, appreciating his beautiful, idealistic conclusions but finding his reasoning insufficient (e.g., abandoning tractors would starve people).</li><li>Compare Berry’s idealism to J.R.R. Tolkien and Guardini's Letters at Lake Como; both depict lovely worlds but lack practical solutions for modern challenges.</li></ul> <h3>Christian Marriage and Pope Leo XIII</h3><ul><li>Introduction to Pope Leo XIII: Adam introduces Pope Leo XIII (1810–1903), a prophetic figure who addressed modernity’s challenges (secularism, communism, liberalism) in the late 19th century.</li><li>Known for Rerum Novarum (1891, Catholic social teaching), reviving Thomism in seminaries (to counter Nietzsche, Hegel, and communism), and engaging modern society.</li><li>His encyclical Arcanum Divinae Sapientiae (1880) emphasizes Christian marriage as a divine, not secular, institution, foundational to society.</li><li>Critiqued rise of divorce, moral relativism, and civil interference undermining marriage’s sanctity; argued church, not state, holds primary authority over marriage.</li><li>Marriage as Trinitarian Image: Marriage mirrors the Trinity’s relational society, where spousal love is so real it produces a third (child), reflecting Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.</li><li>Secular view (Enlightenment-era and today) reduces marriage to a consensual contract, ignoring its sacramental, stable, and permanent nature.</li><li>State has a role in regulating marriage per natural law, but church’s supernatural authority supersedes.</li></ul> <h3>Ephesians 5 and Mutual Submission</h3><ul><li>Scriptural Basis: Leo XIII references Ephesians 5 (footnoted), where St. Paul instructs mutual submission out of reverence for Christ, with specific roles: wives submit to husbands, husbands love wives as Christ loved the church.</li><li>Secular society fixates on “wives submit,” ignoring mutual submission and husbands’ sacrificial love.</li><li>Submission Defined: Adam posits submission stems from extreme trust (in a good relationship) or fear (in a bad one); David nuances that even small decisions involve trust or fear, and submission means aligning with another’s mission (e.g., heaven).</li><li>Ideal marriage: Both spouses are so submissive they forget themselves, sharing one mission (heaven), as exemplified by Mary and Joseph (near-perfect).</li><li>Practical Mission: Couples must articulate what “getting to heaven” means (e.g., prioritizing Mass over sports, family dinners, or vacation choices).</li><li>Early marriage decisions set family identity, reducing conflicts when children’s desires arise; trust builds when both spouses prioritize each other’s salvation.</li><li>Example: Blessed Karl of Austria to Zita: “Now we must get to heaven together,” requiring intentional, sometimes extreme steps.</li></ul> <h2>Break 1: Pilgrimage Sponsor</h2><ul><li>Select International Tours: Leading pilgrimages for 34 years with top guides and hotels. Visit selectinternationaltours.com for details.</li></ul> <h2>Second Segment: Roles in Christian Marriage</h2><ul><li>Husband as Leader: Husband is head of the household (per Genesis), leading with love, not dominance, kneeling beside his wife in prayer.</li><li>David prays daily for the Holy Spirit to inspire Pamela’s intuition, valuing her as a “helper” (biblical term for Holy Spirit), taking her insights seriously for family decisions.</li><li>Adam prays during Adoration for Haylee to grow closer to Mary, modeling humility and femininity.</li><li>Leadership Analogy: Like business, where employees leave due to poor leaders, not the mission, wives stay committed if husbands lead with love toward heaven.</li><li>Neglecting presence or duties undermines the mission, making separation easier despite shared goals.</li><li>Formation: Husbands must prioritize prayer, Holy Spirit inspiration, and faith learning to pass tradition to children, adapting as family life grows louder and more complex.</li></ul> <h3>Family Prayer Challenges</h3><ul><li>David’s Routine: Observes “great silence” mornings to foster prayer and silence as a virtue, though young kids (e.g., 2-year-old Susanna) need reminders.</li><li>Older siblings model behavior, reinforcing communal prayer (before/after meals, morning, bedtime).</li><li>Adam’s Struggle: Excels at communal prayer but struggles to safeguard individual prayer time for Haylee (10 minutes of silent contemplation); sees it as his role to protect her prayer, and vice versa.</li><li>Homeschooling complicates silence (starts at 6 AM when kids sleep); mutual submission includes guarding each other’s prayer time.</li><li>Husband’s Role: Create space for wives to flourish in femininity, free from burdens men ideally handle, requiring intentionality.</li></ul> <h2>Break 2: Return to Discussion</h2><ul><li>Sacramental Calling: Marriage is a sacramental vocation for salvation, under church authority (Arcanum Divinae Sapientiae); natural institution (state-regulated) but primarily supernatural (church-governed).</li><li>Polygamy isn’t against natural law, but church elevates monogamy as supernatural ideal.</li><li>Instilling Marriage’s Importance in Children: In a secular world of promiscuity and dating apps, parents must:</li><li>Model Complementarity: Display masculine men and feminine women (e.g., dresses enhance femininity, not mandatory) to show distinct, complementary roles.</li><li>Shield from Technology: Delay exposure to apps like Tinder, which allure with shallow choice over marriage’s depth.</li><li>Promote Virtue: Teach what to do (virtue) over what not to do, fostering human flourishing, not legalism.</li><li>Measure Virtue: Name virtues (e.g., generosity, kindness) to give them value, like business metrics or Snapchat streaks, making them family goals.</li><li>Set Mission: Reinforce family mission (heaven) through consistent leadership, building trust in parents’ heavenly intent.</li></ul> <h2>Podcast-Exclusive Segment: Encyclicals and Legacy</h2><ul><li>Leo XIII’s Legacy: Oldest pope at death (93), first recorded/photographed; addressed Freemasonry (1880s, less relevant today).</li><li>Recommended reading: The Church Speaks to the Modern World (Doubleday, Image Books) compiles Leo XIII’s social teachings, available on abooks.com.</li><li>Suggests great book groups intersperse encyclicals (e.g., Rerum Novarum, Arcanum Divinae Sapientiae) with classics for rich discussion.</li><li>Patreon Support: Offers audiobooks of five Leo XIII encyclicals, professionally recorded by humans (pre-AI), at catholicmanshow.com.</li><li>Father’s Goal: Reflect the Father’s love, giving children a glimpse of divine love through husbandly and fatherly sacrifice, despite failures.</li></ul> <h2>Closing Thoughts</h2><ul><li>Takeaway: Christian marriage, as Leo XIII taught, is a sacramental foundation of society, requiring mutual submission, trust, and a shared mission to heaven, modeled through virtuous leadership and complementarity.</li><li>Encyclical Recommendation: Read Arcanum Divinae Sapientiae (1880) for a primer on Christian marriage’s divine role.</li><li>Final Cheers: “We’re on the Lord’s team, the winning side. Raise your glass! Cheers to Jesus!”</li></ul> <h2>Action Items for Listeners</h2><ul><li>Read Encyclicals: Explore Arcanum Divinae Sapientiae (1880) and Rerum Novarum (1891) for Leo XIII’s insights on marriage and society.</li><li>Model Marriage: Display complementary masculinity and femininity; prioritize virtue over legalism to teach children marriage’s value.</li><li>Protect Prayer: Safeguard communal and individual prayer times (e.g., great silence, 10 minutes for spouse’s contemplation).</li><li>Set Family Mission: Articulate and live the mission to heaven through intentional decisions, building trust and identity.</li><li>Support the Show: Join Patreon at catholicmanshow.com for access to Leo XIII encyclical audiobooks and more.</li><li>Read Berry: Revisit Wendell Berry’s essays for beautiful, if idealistic, reflections on work and society.</li></ul> <h2>Sponsor Mentions</h2><ul><li>Select International Tours: selectinternationaltours.com</li></ul>

Barbecue Judging, Scythe Harvesting, and Christian Marriage

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